by: Iron Crown Media
Toxic people come in many different forms in our lives………..even some family members can be toxic. How often do we make excuses for them? Removing toxic people from your life is for your own good.
If you find yourself surrounded by people who can be considered toxic, listen up my friends. We’ve all been there and we all have people in our lives who are not in a good place themselves, so they attempt to hurt others around them for their own personal agenda.
Toxic folks have different levels to what they do and how they act that isn’t good for everyone around them. Some can be as simple as always being petty, negative, or clingy.
Others have traits that are far more serious like controlling and making you feel unworthy around them.
Can anybody relate to this?
There is a great quote by Oprah that says “You can’t receive if your hands are full.” Thinking about that quote really brings things into perspective when it comes to people we are holding on to who are toxic for us.
Relationships that are no longer serving us well are the hardest to let go of, but we know we have to. It’s the conflict of our heads vs our hearts. Your head already knows what to do…..but oh your heart.💔
In my life I’ve found that whenever it was time to let someone go, It’s a little easier to handle when i realize I have the power to re-invent what that person is to me.See, I hate when things are OVER. It’s too final sometimes and too painful. So I re-invent that relationship.
❣️Loving someone from a distance is OK.
❣️It’s ok to still wish the best for someone but not have them in my inner circle.
❣️Friends, and family members can be toxic. Know when it’s time to re-invent those relationships because they are no longer good for you.
❣️Start distancing yourself slowly if cutting all ties at once makes it seem too hard at first.
Have you had to remove people from your life before because they were toxic for you?