The woman you are becoming may cost you, but embrace it. Money won’t be what these changes cost you. But relationships will be changed. As you change and grow, some people in your life will need to be re-aligned. The only problem with the woman you are becoming is that certain things will make changes in your life and you have to be ready.
People may not like it
As we change and grow to reach our goals and along our personal growth journeys, you have to take a look at the people around you. Not everyone can stay in your life if the same capacity they have been. The reason for this is because some people will notice you’re changing……..and they won’t like it. People are more comfortable with the way you are now, rather than the person you are becoming. Hard truth but you must embrace it.
Your goal should be to change, never to stay the same. Because if you aren’t growing you can’t be moving forward and you become complacent less and less able to embrace yourself.
It’s ok to embrace yourself
When you are in pursuit of your new path, there will be times when you feel like giving up, or slacking off thinking that you are pushing yourself too hard. Don’t let those little voices in your head, or voices of others throw you off from pursuing your goals and embracing yourself.
Often times we get caught up in our heads about what we could be doing instead of what we should be doing. People around us, even those who love us will fill your head with doubts saying that you are working too hard, you are no fun anymore, and they never see you.
Then your own thoughts creep into your head and you think maybe they are right. Just acknowledge them, and keep moving and embrace yourself.
Your inspiration comes from your future, not from your past.
Don’t listen to the negative voices
Keep listening to your why! Why are you seeking change? Why are you striving to be better than you are today? These are your reasons for continued pursuit of your dreams. Even on the days its hard. Late at night when you are working and everyone else is sleeping or partying, you can stay focused and embrace yourself.
Negativity is easy to get wrapped up in and its usually why we give up on something we really want. So this time make a difference and keep pushing through the negative thoughts and feelings.
We really can talk ourselves into or out of anything we want. Think about it.
Fear is not a Factor
To the woman you are becoming, fear is not a factor. We get worried about everything at times as women. What will others think? WIll I fail? Can sustain the momentum I have now?
Don’t get discouraged by letting this four letter F word into your head. Face it head on and then you are not scared anymore. What’s the worst that can happen? You fail, but learn something through the process. Someone judges you for not succeeding? They didn’t have the guts to try and you learned something new. They sat on the sidelines and looked pathetic while you took a chance in life and embraced yourself.
Having the mindset that fear isn’t a factor can be your motto to keep going no matter what.
Have you embraced the woman you are becoming yet?
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