How do you know that you’re doing something well How do you know that you’re doing something well? When we get feedback like this from you!

We are so excited to know that you all love the blog and that it’s helpful to you in some way!

💝We pour our heart and soul into each article because we want you to know how important it is to have great resources when are struggling.

👑We’ve all been through the valleys of life so we want to support and encourage you everyday.

👑Our blogs intent is to encourage you on a bad day, and maybe bring a smile to your face.

👑You inspire us daily and to hear your feedback means so much to us!

Thank you for your continued love on our page and the blog. We will continue to write stories of hope and inspiration for you to enjoy.

Now sis, go straighten your crown. We’ve got you.....and you are not alone!🙌
.
.
.
.
. #lightyourfire #motivateyourselfsis #womeninspiringwomen #personalgrowthjourney #changeyourmindset #fearisnotafactor #fempire #youhavetostartsomewhere #lifeandbizcoach #girlboss #selfconfidence #youcandohardthings #somedayisalie #doitscared #sidehustle #lifecoachforwomen #dontbeafraidtotry #womanceo #hustleandheart #fearless #savvybusinessowner #ironcrownmedia #brokenheart #blogforwomen #weloveourreaders #sistersquad #queensstraighteneachotherscrowns #straightenyourcrown #communityofwomen #womeninspiringwomen 
.
We’ll let you in on a little secret friends..... We’ll let you in on a little secret friends.....🤫

The failures in life are just as important as the wins.🤯

Mind blowing we know. But here’s the deal....

❇️Failures help you learn from your mistakes.

❇️Failing means that you move forward with the experience you gained.

❇️If you won all the time and never lost, you wouldn’t appreciate success as much.

❇️During tough times of failure you find out who is really FOR you in your life, and who is just faking it!

Check out the blog today⤴️ for more of how the importance of failing helps you win!

Drop us a comment below⏬ if you had a failure become your win!💗
.
.
.
.
#happiness #womenempowerment #ironcrownmedia #blogsforwomen #failures #turningfailureintosuccess #failureispartofsuccess #winssndlosses #encourageothers #encouragementforwomen #encouragement #womenempowerment #blogpostalert #newblogpostalert #womensupportingeachother #youcandohardthings #webelieveyou #webelieveinyou #yougotthis #strugglesandtriumphs
Do you worry about what other people think of you? Do you worry about what other people think of you? Does it take up mental space and cause you stress?

🤜Well you aren’t the only one sis!

We’ve all been there when the worry of what “they think” matters.

Today on the blog↗️ we’ve got an inspiring story of how to overcome the fear of what other people think.

We really think it will help, so check it out!

Drop us a 💛 if it was helpful!
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
#happiness #selflove #selfesteem #ironcrownmedia #blogsforwomen #goodreading #selflovejourney #selfhelp #womenempowerment #womensupportingwomen #blogpost #getoverfear #fearless #motivated #setgoalsnotlimits #arizona #chicago #nyc  #selfconfidenceiskey #believeinyourself
Happy Valentine’s Day! Do what makes you happy Happy Valentine’s Day!

Do what makes you happy today and spread love wherever you go!❤️❤️❤️
.
.
.
.
.
#happiness #valentines #vday #galentinesday #womenempowerment #ironcrownmedia #bffs❤️ #valentine #chocolatecharcuterie #loveisintheair💕 #loveoneanother #girlgang #selflove #loveyouall #blogforwomen #dallas #atl #nyc  #chicago #michigan #arizona
If you’re anything like us, it’s easy to forge If you’re anything like us, it’s easy to forget how accessories 🕶can level up the look of any outfit.

🧣Scarves add a pop of color and can take a blouse from drab to fab quickly.

👒Bad hair day? No problem with the perfect hat.

👚Plain necklines on your favorite tee can kick be kicked up a notch with a pretty necklace or chain.

We’ve put together more cute looks and great ideas for you on the blog today.⬆️ Check out today’s featured post—Adorable Accessories Perfect for Winter❄️

Let’s us know, what are some of your favorite accessories that you can’t live without?⤵️
.
.
.
.
.
.
#accessories #winterlooks #wardrobegoals #womenclothingforwinter #scarves #jewelryinspo #jewelryinspiration #cutehats #hatsforwinter #accessorize #ironcrownmedia #blogpostalert #blogforwomen #womenblog #comminityforwomen
🤣😝 Save & Share this with a friend! Wishing 🤣😝 Save & Share this with a friend!

Wishing you all a fabulous weekend!
.
.
.
.
.
#happiness #weekendvibes #saturdaymood😎 #earringsofinstagram #lol #haveagreatweekend #smilemoreoften #ironcrownmedia #goodvibes #sillystuff #laughoutloud #makemesmile #womeninspiringwomen #blog
How are you going to magnify your setback into you How are you going to magnify your setback into your comeback?

It is possible to turn things around in your favor and we’ve got some simple tips for you.

Extreme times in life call for extreme measures, but we’ve got you!

Check out the article on the blog ↗️ now to learn some simple tips!

Have you ever turned a setback into your comeback? Let us know ⤵️
.
.
.
.
.
#brokenheart #setbacktocomeback #setbacks #overcomingobstacles #womenrisingup #youcandohardthings #fearlessgirl #womenovercomingadversity #healyourheart #youcancomebackfromanything #ironcrownmedia #blogpostforwomen #blogpost #happiness #womeninspiringwomen
Our featured article today comes from our reader s Our featured article today comes from our reader submissions. @decision_a_day bravely shares her story of how her divorce left her with tough decisions to make.

She shares how she even had to  re-discover what she liked to eat because she hadn’t really thought about what SHE wanted and liked in so long.

Her inspiring story of self discovery will help you understand that you are not alone.

Read Rochelle’s featured story on the blog today and let us know if you’ve ever felt the same way below ❤️👇
.
.
.
.
.
.
#happiness #brokenheart #divorcerecovery #womenwhohaveinspiredme #ironcrownmedia #healingafterdivorce #learningyourself #selfdiscoveryjourney #youxandohardthings #youcanovercomeanything #divorcesupport #blogpost #youarenotalone #inspiringstoriesforwomen #womensupportingwomen
Don’t ever quit! . . . . . #brokenheart #setback Don’t ever quit!
.
.
.
.
.
#brokenheart #setbacks #setbacktocomeback #keepgoing #donteverquit #womenshowingstrength #youcandohardthings #healyourself #keeppushingthrough #onharddays #youarenotalone❤️ #broken #blessup #godblessedthebrokenroad #stoplookingback
Load More...
  • Write For Us
  • Contact Us
  • Subscribe
  • Beauty
  • Home
  • About
  • Self + Relationships
  • Reader Submissions
  • Recipes
  • Write For Us
  • Contact Us
  • Subscribe
  • Beauty

Iron Crown

The ultimate online blog resource for every woman making a comeback in her life

  • Home
  • About
  • Self + Relationships
  • Reader Submissions
  • Recipes

Featured, Self + Relationships · December 27, 2020

4 Simple Steps To Start Over When You’re Broken

Start Over

Your world has crashed down around you and you’re broken. Totally and completely barely living. In despair and have lost all hope to ever feeling normal or happy again. Everyone around you is telling you that you will be o.k., with time the pain will ease and you will be able to start over.

While they mean well and are trying their best to comfort you, no one knows how YOU feel. Your pain is not their pain, and maybe deep down you know they are right, you really don’t want to hear that right now. Right now you want the ache to go away. Right now you want to wake up and wish it was all a bad dream so you can Start Over.

Unfortunately it probably wasn’t all a bad dream, and you have to find some way out of the hole you are in. Listen, nothing is simple right now, but here are 4 suggestions to break things down into easy steps. Go easy on yourself, take your time to heal and Start Over

Control what you can control

In times like these, when everything is overwhelming and your life feels out of control, find some comfort in the little things that you have power over, making it easier to Start Over. If washing a batch of clothes is all you can control, take peace in that. It sounds so simple yet its so true. Your clothes will be clean and you did something for the day. That really is something you can control.

Make your own rules

Guess what? If you want to put pots in your top kitchen cabinets instead of glasses, do it. Run the dishwasher three times to avoid unloading it, so what! You don’t have to “conform to the norms” right now. Anything that makes you feel like you can have a sense of comfort and help you Start Over, do it. Simple things is what is going to help you put your pieces back together.

Fresh air really does help

It may sound cliché but even if you just open a window, or sitting outside can help you begin to feel better. Being in the house all closed up and never venturing outside during this rough time, can lead to you feeling even worse. Fresh air helps stimulate your senses and if you get a little vitamin D in the process, that’s great too. Sometimes taking a ride in the car with the windows down can do the trick to help clear your thoughts as well.

Be mindful of who gets your time right now

Your energy and focus need to remain on you and your healing during this tough season. If you find yourself around people who are always negative or toxic, take a step back for your own mental health. Setting your boundaries doesn’t mean you have to be rude or argumentative, rather you can politely take a break from those folks for awhile. You need peace all around you as you navigate your struggles. No need to give your precious time to anyone who drains you and stops you from being able to Start Over.

Putting the broken pieces of your life back together goes at your own pace and really does take time, so give yourself that gift of time and understanding to get to a Start Over point. We are all here rooting for you, and you are never alone. Keep Freakin’ Going No Matter What!

Are you going through a tough season right now unable to start over? Comment below if you would like to just let us know.

Share this:

  • Click to share on Twitter (Opens in new window)
  • Click to share on Facebook (Opens in new window)
  • Click to share on Pinterest (Opens in new window)

In: Featured, Self + Relationships · Tagged: broken dreams, divorce, hard times, loss, personal growth, starting over, struggles

Leave a Reply Cancel reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

Join Us

You’ll Also Love

MagnifyMagnify Your Setback Into Your Comeback with these Tips
Decision in a Day
Healing your Broken Heart IS Possible
Next Post >

Hot Nail Polish Colors to Try This Season

Recent Posts

  • Why the Failures are just as Important as the Wins
  • How I got over the Fear of What Other People Think
  • Adorable Accessories Perfect for Winter
  • Magnify Your Setback Into Your Comeback with these Tips
  • Decision in a Day
The ultimate online blog resource for every woman making a comeback in her life.

Join Us

Categories

  • Self
  • Recipes
  • Reader Submissions
  • Quotes We Love

Reader Favorites

  • What to do When Everyone is Happy BUT You
  • Healing your Broken Heart IS Possible
  • Removing Toxic People from Your Life–For Your Own Good

trending now

  • What to do When Everyone is Happy BUT You
  • Healing your Broken Heart IS Possible
  • Removing Toxic People from Your Life–For Your Own Good
  • 4 Simple Steps To Start Over When You’re Broken

instagram

Follow @ironcrownmedia

How do you know that you’re doing something well How do you know that you’re doing something well? When we get feedback like this from you!

We are so excited to know that you all love the blog and that it’s helpful to you in some way!

💝We pour our heart and soul into each article because we want you to know how important it is to have great resources when are struggling.

👑We’ve all been through the valleys of life so we want to support and encourage you everyday.

👑Our blogs intent is to encourage you on a bad day, and maybe bring a smile to your face.

👑You inspire us daily and to hear your feedback means so much to us!

Thank you for your continued love on our page and the blog. We will continue to write stories of hope and inspiration for you to enjoy.

Now sis, go straighten your crown. We’ve got you.....and you are not alone!🙌
.
.
.
.
. #lightyourfire #motivateyourselfsis #womeninspiringwomen #personalgrowthjourney #changeyourmindset #fearisnotafactor #fempire #youhavetostartsomewhere #lifeandbizcoach #girlboss #selfconfidence #youcandohardthings #somedayisalie #doitscared #sidehustle #lifecoachforwomen #dontbeafraidtotry #womanceo #hustleandheart #fearless #savvybusinessowner #ironcrownmedia #brokenheart #blogforwomen #weloveourreaders #sistersquad #queensstraighteneachotherscrowns #straightenyourcrown #communityofwomen #womeninspiringwomen 
.
We’ll let you in on a little secret friends..... We’ll let you in on a little secret friends.....🤫

The failures in life are just as important as the wins.🤯

Mind blowing we know. But here’s the deal....

❇️Failures help you learn from your mistakes.

❇️Failing means that you move forward with the experience you gained.

❇️If you won all the time and never lost, you wouldn’t appreciate success as much.

❇️During tough times of failure you find out who is really FOR you in your life, and who is just faking it!

Check out the blog today⤴️ for more of how the importance of failing helps you win!

Drop us a comment below⏬ if you had a failure become your win!💗
.
.
.
.
#happiness #womenempowerment #ironcrownmedia #blogsforwomen #failures #turningfailureintosuccess #failureispartofsuccess #winssndlosses #encourageothers #encouragementforwomen #encouragement #womenempowerment #blogpostalert #newblogpostalert #womensupportingeachother #youcandohardthings #webelieveyou #webelieveinyou #yougotthis #strugglesandtriumphs
Do you worry about what other people think of you? Do you worry about what other people think of you? Does it take up mental space and cause you stress?

🤜Well you aren’t the only one sis!

We’ve all been there when the worry of what “they think” matters.

Today on the blog↗️ we’ve got an inspiring story of how to overcome the fear of what other people think.

We really think it will help, so check it out!

Drop us a 💛 if it was helpful!
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
#happiness #selflove #selfesteem #ironcrownmedia #blogsforwomen #goodreading #selflovejourney #selfhelp #womenempowerment #womensupportingwomen #blogpost #getoverfear #fearless #motivated #setgoalsnotlimits #arizona #chicago #nyc  #selfconfidenceiskey #believeinyourself
Happy Valentine’s Day! Do what makes you happy Happy Valentine’s Day!

Do what makes you happy today and spread love wherever you go!❤️❤️❤️
.
.
.
.
.
#happiness #valentines #vday #galentinesday #womenempowerment #ironcrownmedia #bffs❤️ #valentine #chocolatecharcuterie #loveisintheair💕 #loveoneanother #girlgang #selflove #loveyouall #blogforwomen #dallas #atl #nyc  #chicago #michigan #arizona
If you’re anything like us, it’s easy to forge If you’re anything like us, it’s easy to forget how accessories 🕶can level up the look of any outfit.

🧣Scarves add a pop of color and can take a blouse from drab to fab quickly.

👒Bad hair day? No problem with the perfect hat.

👚Plain necklines on your favorite tee can kick be kicked up a notch with a pretty necklace or chain.

We’ve put together more cute looks and great ideas for you on the blog today.⬆️ Check out today’s featured post—Adorable Accessories Perfect for Winter❄️

Let’s us know, what are some of your favorite accessories that you can’t live without?⤵️
.
.
.
.
.
.
#accessories #winterlooks #wardrobegoals #womenclothingforwinter #scarves #jewelryinspo #jewelryinspiration #cutehats #hatsforwinter #accessorize #ironcrownmedia #blogpostalert #blogforwomen #womenblog #comminityforwomen
🤣😝 Save & Share this with a friend! Wishing 🤣😝 Save & Share this with a friend!

Wishing you all a fabulous weekend!
.
.
.
.
.
#happiness #weekendvibes #saturdaymood😎 #earringsofinstagram #lol #haveagreatweekend #smilemoreoften #ironcrownmedia #goodvibes #sillystuff #laughoutloud #makemesmile #womeninspiringwomen #blog
Load More...
  • About
  • Contact

Join Us

  • Subscribe
  • Privacy Policy
  • Disclosure

Copyright © 2021 Iron Crown